When Harry Met Sally

When Harry Met Sally (1989)
Director: Rob Reiner
Cast: Billy Crystal, Meg Ryan, Carrie Fisher, Bruno Kirby
Memorable Line: "What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way."





The basic thesis of the movie is that men and woman can't be friends. Ever.

When Harry Met Sally starts with Harry (Crystal) and Sally (Ryan) on a road trip. Harry crassly states that men and woman can't be friends and that's that. But, against that credo, years later their paths cross again and a friendship blossoms. It's a genuine friendship in which they support each other through life's ups and downs, but then Harry's statement becomes prophetic as their friendship moves to the next level. Can their friendship survive? Do they move to even the next level or crash and burn?

Rob Reiner helms the production with great competence, but it's really the strength of Nora Ephron's script that provides the foundation of this funny and endearing film. The dialog is witty, sharp and realistic and the scenes flow effortlessly. These are people that we feel we know and relate to easily. The chemistry between Crystal and Ryan is undeniable. Carrie Fisher and Bruno Kirby are delightful as the side kicks.

Reiner uses the framing devise of interviews with real elderly couples looking back on the beginnings of their own relationships. These interviews work well in setting-up the scenes.

If your significant other is your best friend, then When Harry Met Sally for you.